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Act to strengthen and facilitate communications immediately upon evidence of sex trafficking network activities.
Require clear, consistent communications in order to establish collective safety.
Safety is never to be assumed. Safety can only be determined through clear, consistent communications.
Realize the truth in what a survivor tells you. It will not necessarily be what you think they are communicating at first. Ensure that you adjust your language translation, receptivity, and honorable compass to resonate effectively with the survivor who is communicating with you.
If the survivor is not able to calm down, you are not understanding or speaking their necessary recovery language.
If the survivor tells you that something you say is a trigger for destruction of physiology, you must heed them. Survivors of violent intersections are programmed through torture to respond in certain ways to certain words or behaviors. Often, certain words or gestures are keyed to their physical bodies to cause terrible pain or psychoactive dysfunction.
As your way of respecting the relationship you are building, omit specific words, gestures, or other behaviors from your interactions with that individual as requested so that they may stabilize their neurological function and communicate successfully.
Likewise, when a survivor tells you what words, gestures, or other behaviors would be most supportive for them, listen closely and practice supporting them in this way.
Survivors know how to deprogram themselves if they are in the company of fully respecting and honorable community members committed to building collaborative safety and nourishment.
Once you demonstrate language comprehension and skilled respectfulness, the survivor can calm remarkably quickly.
This facilitates accurate, productive, reparative communications.
These communications are life saving, as the survivor you're interacting with may not find any other human capable of respecting their necessary recovery language.
It is the business of sex trafficking organizations to prevent people from recognizing one another's necessary recovery languages and to make it painful or frightening for people to listen to or learn from one another.
Any delay in your recognition of the survivor's shared information is on the same vector as environmental and interpersonal destructions to their communications and ability to behave calmly and linearly.
The longer you doubt a survivor's story, especially while a body is dying, the more likely it is the survivor will not be able to communicate or behave calmly or productively without significantly more support once you do respond.
This is why most survivors of intersections like these are abandoned.
By the time someone truly tries to listen to and understand them, the damage of continuous torture has made their verbal communications and / or interpersonal behaviors a confusing, violent experience for others to navigate.
Rare helpers do not have a means of successfully navigating the stress of these interactions, and they are not taught how to do it by mainstream professional helping organizations.
You may be the only one who can act for this survivor's safety.
When we all choose to learn how to take action to support survivors' safety in these ways, peace, care, and resilience are rapidly restored to our families and communities.
Thank you for taking this responsibility seriously.
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